🚨 Warning, Sis: Don’t Settle for Less Than You Deserve 🚨

Hey, Sis, let’s get real. Settling for less isn’t just about picking the wrong man or dating someone who treats you like an option instead of a priority. It’s deeper than that.

Here’s the truth:
If you’re settling for less in your own life, pouring all of yourself into others, fixing problems that aren’t yours to fix, or constantly showing up for everyone but yourself, then you’re setting the stage for settling in your relationships too.

Women are naturally nurturers. We help. We love. We fix. But sometimes, that giving spirit can drain us dry, like pouring water into a leaky pot hoping it’ll somehow fill up. When we give from a place of depletion, we accept crumbs because even crumbs feel like a feast compared to the scraps we’ve been giving ourselves.

Here’s the shift: Don’t just raise the bar for men, raise the bar for yourself. Don’t let your worth be defined by how much you can give others. Fill your own cup so you can overflow, not leak.

A woman who knows how to honor herself will naturally attract a man (and people) who do the same.

3 Questions to Check If You’re Settling in Your Own Life

1️⃣ Do I consistently prioritize other people’s needs over my own, even when it leaves me feeling empty?
👉 If so, it’s time to put yourself back on your priority list.

2️⃣ Am I uncomfortable receiving help, love, or support from others?
👉 If yes, ask yourself why. You deserve to receive as much as you give.

3️⃣ Do I celebrate small efforts from others because I’m so used to getting so little?
👉 If you’re easily impressed by the bare minimum, it’s a sign to raise your standard. Expect the best, and don’t be afraid to ask for it.

Sis, it’s time to pour into YOU.
Because the man who is truly for you won’t require you to settle for less—he’ll be drawn to the woman who knows she deserves more.

Pin this reminder and share it with a sister who needs to hear it today. Let’s all commit to not settling, starting with ourselves.

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