From Single to Pursued in 90 Days
A private coaching intensive built to get you approached, out on real dates, and seriously pursued by quality men — in the next 90 days, not someday.
Schedule Your Enrollment Call 60 minutes. We'll talk through where you are and whether this is the right fit.You've been putting in the effort. It just hasn't been working.
The Date Your Future Husband Framework
This is the exact framework I walk you through, 1:1 — the same one my clients use to go from invisible to chosen, from dating around to being someone's future wife.
Get Approached
Stop feeling invisible. Men notice you — online and in person — without you having to chase anyone.
Elevated Dates
Dates that actually go somewhere, instead of another dead-end coffee that fizzles by the second text.
Pursued for Exclusivity
He's the one asking for exclusivity. You're not left wondering where you stand — you're chosen.
Courtship — Talking Marriage
Real conversations about a future together — not guessing if this is ever going anywhere.
What clients experience in their first 90 days
Every woman's timeline is different — this is the pace we build toward from week one.
Women who did exactly this
Hadn't been on a date in three years. Was in a new city and no one was approaching me. Two weeks after starting the program, I was on my first date, and he bought me a really nice gift and flowers.
No dates since my divorce five years ago. Within three weeks, I was seeing the same man on multiple dates. Having the time of my life.
I used to travel out of state just to meet men. Now I have men pursuing me — taking me to Michelin-star restaurants.
What you're probably asking yourself right now
This isn't generic dating advice or another app strategy. It's a process built specifically for women who've been single for a long time and don't just need more dates — they need a different approach, applied to their real life, with someone in their corner adjusting it as you go. The women above weren't exceptions. They were stuck the same way you are, and the process moved them.
Most advice tells you to "put yourself out there more." This works on the specific pattern keeping men from approaching or pursuing you — not just volume.
One 60-minute call a week, built around your schedule, with direct access to me in between — so you're never guessing what to do next.
That's exactly why this is 1:1 and not a course. We adjust in real time to what's actually happening in your dating life, week to week.
You've likely spent more than this on apps, subscriptions, and advice that didn't move you. This is a focused 90 days with a plan and a person behind it.
I know this path personally.
I'm Marlena Cole — Certified Marriage Coach, author of From Single to Married, and founder of The Well Loved Movement.
I spent years in a cycle of dating that went nowhere before I built the process that changed it — and met my own husband using it. I bring that same process, sharpened over years of coaching high-achieving women, to every client I work with 1:1.
When we work together, we move with intention. My clients don't just get more dates. They get pursued by the right ones.
3-Month Private Mentorship
Single to Pursued in 90 Days
or 3 monthly payments of $1,000
- Weekly 60-minute 1:1 coaching calls
- Custom online profile optimization
- In-person dating strategy, built around your city and your life
- Direct access to me between sessions
- Full access to my course work and dating strategy video library
- + so much more
Spots are limited each month to keep coaching genuinely 1:1.
Results vary from person to person. Nothing on this page is a guarantee of any outcome, timeline, or result. Testimonials reflect individual client experiences shared voluntarily and are not representative of results for every client. Your results will depend on your own effort, circumstances, and consistency.